So it’s his b-day and you want to make it head-blowingly awesome. Easy, right? As we all know, giving a b-jay is a classic (and greatly appreciated) way to say, “happy birthday” to your man. But wait–not so fast! A first-class blowjob isn’t that simple; in fact, it takes skill, precision patience– and a whole lot of passion to make it epic. You might already think you’re good at it, but trust us, you could get better. Here’s how to give the best birthday blow job suprise.

Make it spontaneous

If he knows it’s coming, there’s no surprise. Half the thrill is not knowing you’re about to get the best birthday blowjob surprise ever! So, make sure to catch him off guard, maybe while he’s in the shower or changing in his room, to give him a real shocker.

Tease him a bit

Men are visual creatures. Take advantage of his animal biology by enticing him first visually to get his circulation flowing. “When a man is turned on before sex in the right way, it not only feels good, but his body is also more receptive and his orgasm more intense,” says sex expert Gloria Brame, PhD.

You can tease him by wearing sexy lingerie— but only for looking, not touching! Then, let him watch you caress or tickle his sweet spots such as his pelvis, thighs or if you’re feeling kinky, the good ol’ twin sacks. You can also make affectionate humming noises as you go– sound effects are hot! He’ll know he’s about to get the best birthday blowjob ever!

Start slow and sensual

Anything good is worth waiting for– blowjobs especially. Build up the anticipation by gradually introducing your mouth to his shaft with kisses and licks. Then, you can begin engulfing his shaft with your mouth at a steady pace. Don’t rush it right away as if you’re starring in your own sloppy porn– at least not yet! The idea is to slowly increase the tension by increasing the speed as you go, helping to intensify and prolong his sensation.

Mind your hands

For the best birthday blow job suprise, your hands and mouth should be a team effort. Sex blogger, Sophie Thomas suggests finding a matching rhythm between them both, allowing the pleasure to feel smooth and flowing. You can also get creative by touching his perineum or other hot spots. If you’ve got a free hand, and you’re confident about your multitasking skills, you can always pleasure yourself, which adds to the visual hotness of it all.

Deep throat like a champ

Ah, the famous deep throat! When things start to heat up, and you’re headed for the grande finale, you should deepen your blowjob to send him over the edge. According to Kenneth Play, sex educator, “If you have a gag reflex, you could limit the depth [of the penis] before it hits your gag reflex.” And if you’re super gaggy and nervous about tossing your load (before he does), you can always compensate by making sexy mouthful sounds. This way, you’re playing up the performance, even if you’re not going deep, which can sometimes be just as arousing.

Watch your teeth

The final tip is to keep your blowjob teeth-free. Some people believe it’s erotic to glide their teeth along the penis shaft, but truthfully, this is rarely the case. Usually, any feeling of teeth during a blow job is uncomfortable and nerve-racking. So, don’t be a toothy sucker!

Learning how to give the best birthday blowjob surprise helps keep things steamy in the relationship. Besides, who needs to bother with birthday cake when you’ve got his icing? Oh yes, and that’s a hint to swallow… enjoy!

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