Kiss, bang and finish! Is this your typical sex routine? Couples, who are creatures of habit, keep replaying their usual sexpisodes, and are often too busy (or sleepy) to learn new tricks. To get out of this dry spell, you should try to step out of your comfort zone. Do you even have a goodie drawer? What’s inside? If your sex stash just consists of some old condoms and drugstore lube, you’re probably in serious need of a sex life makeover. Let’s begin!

Go Toy Shopping

Like a couple of kids at Toys “R” Us—but with cash to spend—take a trip to the sex shop for a low-key shopping trip. The salespeople are usually super friendly and helpful when assisting you to find the right tools to amp up your sex routine. They offer a warm easy-going vibe, allowing you to feel comfortable discussing your sexual needs and picking out some new treats.

As a starting point, you can try the a finger vibrator. It makes a reliable foreplay toy that lets you perform the same actions you love, only better. Yet, maybe you prefer a toy that heats things up during the main event? In that case, you can try the 10 Mode Remote Control Cock Ring. It’s a rubber loop that hugs his shaft to make it harder and bigger, delaying and intensifying the orgasm until he bursts.

Spice up your Lube

Generic lubes put you into that category of boring couples who watch the “Price is Right” and collect coupons. Lame. To really spice things up, become more interested in the types of lubricants you’re using. You’ll be surprised to know how many different scents, textures and tastes are out there! Take time to browse the brands that get your libido flowing, creating better sex just from finding the right kind of slippage. Who knew?

You’ll turn oral sex from a job to a dessert, it’ll be your favorite sex game-changer. With its delicious taste and dewy texture, the hardest part is deciding where to use it first.

Visit the Backyard

When looking for a new adventure, there’s always some fun in store in your own backyard. Yes, we’re talking about anal sex. Many couples are often intimidated to explore the booty region because of its less than glamorous reputation. Okay, understandable. But if you forget about all the scary urban myths, anal play is actually a wonderful and liberating alternative.

Butt plugs are a great way to warm up the downstairs area before opening the door. But they’re not just exclusive to women and gay men; straight men should also explore anal. After all, the G-Spot is actually located in the prostate (in the butt). These days, more straight guys seem to be coming around to the idea of buttkkkk stuff. So, if you can abandon your jockey cliché of up-the-butt-phobia than you’ll open a whole new world of awesomeness

Soft Core Bondage

For newbies to the BDSM scene, take baby steps toward trying some new moves. Beginners usually start out with the basics such as blindfolds and handcuffs—you know, the usual kinky stuff. These props allow you to take on the role as either the dominator and the submitter, creating a hot roleplay scenario to increase the excitement. It makes the difference between the couples who actually have a steamy sex life and the ones who went to see “50 Shades of Grey” and now think they’re adventurous.

Ultimately, just because you switch positions once or twice a week, doesn’t mean you’re fun in the sac. Making a real upgrade to your sex life means kicking away all your usual habits and taking some risks. Once things get less predictable, the real ride begins—hold on tight!

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